respect简单

These tools can help you win every argument — not in the unhelpful sense of beating your opponents but in the better sense of learning about the issues that divide people, learning why they disagree with us and learning to talk and work together with them. If we readjust our view of arguments — from a verbal fight or tennis game to a reasoned exchange through which we all gain mutual respect and understanding — then we change the very nature of what it means to “win” an argument.

这些方法可以帮助你赢得每一场争论——不是在击败对手这种无益的意义上，而是在更好的意义上：了解使人们产生分歧的问题，了解他们为什么与我们意见不同，并学会与他们交谈和合作。如果我们重新调整对争论的看法——从口头争斗或网球比赛转变为一种理性的交流，通过这种交流我们都能获得相互尊重和理解——那么我们就改变了“赢得”争论的本质含义。

There is a better way to win arguments. Imagine that you favor increasing the minimum wage in our state, and I do not. If you yell, “Yes,” and I yell, “No,” neither of us learns anything. We neither understand nor respect each other, and we have no basis for compromise or cooperation. In contrast, suppose you give a reasonable argument: that full-time workers should not have to live in poverty. Then I counter with another reasonable argument: that a higher minimum wage will force businesses to employ fewer people for less time. Now we can understand each other’s positions and recognize our shared values, since we both care about needy workers.

有一种更好的方式来赢得争论。设想你赞成提高我们州的最低工资，而我不赞成。如果你大喊“赞成”，我大喊“反对”，我们谁都学不到任何东西。我们既不理解也不尊重对方，也没有妥协或合作的基础。相反，假设你给出一个合理的论证：全职工人不应该生活在贫困之中。然后我用另一个合理的论证来反驳：更高的最低工资会迫使企业雇用更少的人、缩短雇用时间。这样我们就能理解彼此的立场，并认识到我们共同的价值观，因为我们都关心贫困的工人。

respect.

尊重。

Parts of the ceremony involve ritual hair cutting, [tying] cotton threads soaked in holy water around the bride’s and groom’s wrists, and [passing] a candle around a circle of happily married and respected couples to bless the [union].

仪式的部分环节包括象征性的剪发、将浸过圣水的棉线系在新娘和新郎的手腕上，以及在一圈婚姻幸福、受人尊敬的夫妇之间传递蜡烛，以祝福这桩婚姻。

They do so best where building sticks to their edges and respects their character.

在建设紧贴其边缘、尊重其特色的地方，它们发展得最好。

How do the people you respect and look up to present themselves?

你尊重和敬仰的人是如何展现自己的？

But unlike their absolutist counterparts in the Gulf and Asia, most royal families have survived because they allow voters to avoid the difficult search for a non-controversial but respected public figure.

但与海湾地区和亚洲的专制君主不同，大多数王室之所以得以存续，是因为它们让选民免于艰难地寻找一位没有争议又受人尊敬的公众人物。

Professional Statisticians Deserve More Respect.

专业统计学家应受到更多尊重

When our time of mourning is over, we press forward, stronger with a greater understanding and respect for life.

当悲伤的日子过去，我们会继续前进，变得更加坚强，对生活也有了更深的理解和尊重。

Try to keep in mind that almost everyone respects and wants to help you if you are trying to make a good change in your life, especially your dearest and nearest people.

请记住，如果你正努力让生活发生好的改变，几乎每个人都会尊重你并愿意帮助你，尤其是你最亲近的人。